Don't let the opinions of others define who you are. Consider them, make adjustments if necessary, and then be you. - Garrison Wynn
Your perspective should be your guiding force, and the opinions of others?
They should hold little weight, especially when they’re coming from people who don’t know you well. Everyone has their viewpoint, but it’s an opinion, not a fact. Of course, the views of those close to you, like family or lifelong friends, matter more. But beyond that, in social circles or among acquaintances, those opinions often reflect surface-level judgments that can distort how you see yourself.
True connections and relationships based on mutual respect, time, and shared values are rare, but they’re also the most valuable. They push you to grow, challenge your limits, and bring out your best. Unfortunately, such connections aren’t something you encounter often, and when you do, they’re worth cherishing.
So, what's the takeaway?